Good or bad ? How do you know ?
Life is so unexpected and we don't know what we have decided upon is going to be good or bad. Recently I met a few friends and they told me about bumping onto my ex and his girl friend. I haven't seen him for some times and have no idea how he looks like now. The report I have is that he has put on weight and look a bit older. Even I had grown older now..so it is natural that he does.
My friends told me that she doesn't look as attractive as I do ....hahahaha is that something to make me feel good ??? Yes la a little I admit. But whether she is not so pretty or not, does it matter ? Now it is not who he found that matters to me, I am not the best too for him and there is no perfect in relationship. He found her to be good in some quality that he can't find in me and I can't see some qualities that I like to see in a man. He may have not lived up to be a perfect husband but I know he tried. Whether he has made the right choice....who knows!?
So Good or Bad choice ? Nobody knows really. Just live in current moment and make good relationship to yourself !
1 comment:
Hi r,
Good to see you here again..thanks for visiting my blog. We are all not perfect and you are right, we should make the relationship good and work it to the best for everyone. It is almost impossible to find one that we think is the perfect..
with metta :)
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