Can you trust me ? Trust matter....how to deal with it ?
I was talking to a lady and she said she had argument with this guy and it is a matter of trust related to business. What's more in relationship where both parties are committing seriously into responsibility, taking care and trusting the person on intimate level. Trust the person you loved and finally you are betrayed...posting your indecent pictures on the net and etc...I supposed when you can share some very personal pictures of you to someone, it entails great trust in that friendship to start with.
People often asked you don't trust me ? How to response ? Have you ever trust a person 100% and no doubt at all of any possibilities that he won't cheat you ? There is no 100% assurance in anything...this is side topic....my ex colleague from AIA has suffered tremendous loss when AIG faced the financial crisis. Some of them were nearly millionaire but sadly overnight...they are not ! Unless they have another good 20 years with the company to see the share price return to those good old days ! So they have entrusted their retirement funds with the lucrative share options that they have accumulated over the years !
Why is there so much fear for people to get committed into relationship ? Is it about TRUST ??? Trust or not trusting the person that this relationship will last ? I really have no answer to it.. ..it goes by instinct at first, any thing can happen but as long as both enjoy being together, build up the confidence and understanding, seeing the great value in each other...and the rest we shall leave it to our fate !
What do you think ?
Just my thoughts :-)
