Good Marriage

A friend sent me this article...(double click on the image to enlarge for better reading)

It is nice and very soothing to read ! That reminds me of what I saw during my regular weekend outing.

I got used to walking alone in the mall after sometime being alone, since I have no one to talk to, I look and observe people in the mall, young couples, old couples and family.

So after reading this article, I remember I saw this old Indian couple in their 60's sharing the escalator with me. They have so much to talk and laugh, and at the end of the escalator, he walked next to her and hold her hand..and they continued their joyful conversation. In my heart, I really wanted to tell them.."I am so happy for both of you, you inspired me to live long and love long"

I didn't do so obviously...they probably will think something is wrong with me..!

I don't know why, when I see this couple looking so happy, I feel equally happy inside me. The lovingkindness in me radiated towards them. Perhaps they have shown me a good example of being old together is a joy and able to share our lives together is another greater happiness. It is their gesture that makes me think deeper how to maintain a good relationship !?

May all be well, happy and peaceful...with metta :)

Great songs for great memories

This evening driving home could have been nightmare and horrible experience.  The rain was heavy and traffic was unusually slow.  

Somehow, I was so relaxed in the car,  feeling joy thinking of incidents for the day..nothing unpleasant !  Everything has been great since I got up from the bed....Even the car park attendant has greeted with a nice warm smile when I left the office.    I just don't have any reason to be unhappy about :)

Thanks to the wonderful songs on the radio that kept me company.  They reminded me of my younger days, tea party and those great fun at home.  The carefree days, inviting guys and gals made equal couples for slow dancing !  Hahaha...so fun and so sweet then !

Posting here 2 great songs by Modern Talking !

One Wish...Happiness to all beings !

A friend said this to me, "Manddy, a nice wish, I know you are a kind lady now !" 

Maybe a little overated...but I take it as a compliment, thanks ! 

I do have a kind heart, I think I am also soft hearted too and I feel helpless and sad when I am unable to help friends easing them from the trouble and problem and bring back the happiness.

All I wished for this year and many more years is seeing more happy people around.  Everyday, I will visualise friends having great smile on their faces.  Honestly I don't know if it works that way, but sincerely that is all I wished for !

 

I have seen and been through sad days where I couldn't not feel the inner peace inside me, I felt helpless and I can't pick myself up.  I really hate myself when I am down.  I know I deserve a better life, and a lot more smile on my face.  Sigh...don't want to see myself like this anymore !

Typically of me and anyone I think....haha, we feel sad when we hear bad news, or seeing someone feeling down.  Deep down inside me, I really want happiness and being happy just for a few minutes a day can mean something to me.  Aiyah..so easily satisfied !! 

I often asked my self, what is the good thing I have done today ?  By counting the blessing...you will feel good ! At times, I would think are they suffering as I do ? And how can I make them feel better or happier ?  So that is when I will visualise a nice smile on the face :-)  

Lately I haven't been happy.... thinking a lot and I have agonized over it.  Finally, I overcome my fear by confronting it and I feel a sense of relief.

Though I wish for everyone to be happy, but it is still the mindset of the individual :

"Your attract what you hold in your mind.  Your mind is a magnet"

Once again my wish for everyone be happy always !