Every day, every minutes something is happening in our lives ! I am just thinking of people that I know, every household and their family, at work and private life, something took place !
I had a real good chat with a few friends, it was sex and the city for me ~ our version. We have four different profiles,
I had a real good chat with a few friends, it was sex and the city for me ~ our version. We have four different profiles,
- A sweet young girl, separated almost 18 months ago yet still very much in love with her ex, he has moved on soon getting married,
- Capable young lady in a triangle love, boyfriend is soon becoming a father,
- In her mid 40s, happily married and contented with life with 2 kids
- A divorcee with kids.
It wasn't meant to be such a drama evening for all of us, but somehow we were open to share our experiences and what has been bothering us ! We talked about how man reacted strangely in some cases. The way they walked away, things that upset them and what does it mean when he is silence and stay out from our lives ?
So we have a facilitator who is a man, who is a profound gay friend. We spoke about why we ladies tend to wait for the man to control the situation, why can't we speak out and tell the man off ?? It is quite true actually. Why do you need to wait for the man to date us ?? Another question was why do woman always think of marriage as a priority in life ??
We compared the level of pain and heartache we felt about our situation. Undoubtedly all of us get hurt when a relationship broke up including male and female. However, the male ego will hide their emotions and feelings ! Whereas ladies tend to be more emotional, will continuously try to care for the partner even after the relationship is off !
It was rather emotional last night...but it was truly therapeutic for all ! If it takes a real heartache once to move out of the situation, just let it happen. I feel at times we need to face some challenges in life to be awaken ! So it is good to spare some time to reflect what happened and learn out from it !
My dear ladies, we are all beautiful butterfly...at times we are the caterpillar and when we fail, we are the cocoon and we can't be there forever, a butterfly must emerge when the time is right...and we are the beautiful butterfly..in deed the most beautiful one !
Happiness to all....with metta !
So we have a facilitator who is a man, who is a profound gay friend. We spoke about why we ladies tend to wait for the man to control the situation, why can't we speak out and tell the man off ?? It is quite true actually. Why do you need to wait for the man to date us ?? Another question was why do woman always think of marriage as a priority in life ??
We compared the level of pain and heartache we felt about our situation. Undoubtedly all of us get hurt when a relationship broke up including male and female. However, the male ego will hide their emotions and feelings ! Whereas ladies tend to be more emotional, will continuously try to care for the partner even after the relationship is off !
It was rather emotional last night...but it was truly therapeutic for all ! If it takes a real heartache once to move out of the situation, just let it happen. I feel at times we need to face some challenges in life to be awaken ! So it is good to spare some time to reflect what happened and learn out from it !
My dear ladies, we are all beautiful butterfly...at times we are the caterpillar and when we fail, we are the cocoon and we can't be there forever, a butterfly must emerge when the time is right...and we are the beautiful butterfly..in deed the most beautiful one !
Happiness to all....with metta !
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