This is a good month for wedding and on the road, there were so many bridal parades and there goes my heart thinking about marriage.
A few of us discussed about marriage and most of us agreed that marriage certificate is just a piece of paper and there is no guarantee to last a life time. And to certain extent, this paper can be a nuisance when the marriage doesn't work out. Of course on a positive note, not all marriages would have a divorce to end. There are certainly ups and downs in every relationship, but once clarity, trust and communication is strengthen, things would work out some how and everything will fall in place.
So our conclusion is till the last breath, if he / she is still next to us, then we can say he/she is my husband or wife. Well, what happened along the way, we don't want to know la..In my opinion, when a couple cares for each other, whether there is the "paper"or not is not so important after all. More important is to know that he will be there for you when you needed him and the foundation of this love is strong. Love has so many faces, unconditional, pure and infinite. I find love is an instinct, it gives us hope and strength in our daily life. When you feel the instinct is right, you will know it.
Personal experience tells me when there is love, everything seem possible. We need love and it can be any kind of love, husband and wife, siblings love, friends, parents and children's love. Love takes a lot sacrifices and it is not a one way street, especially true love. When you show true love to someone, it is about being with him and allow him to accomplish everything in life. Thus, true compassionate and kindness come along with this true love. Once the condition is right, it will only lead to a long lasting relationship.
True love lies inside you finally...
2 comments:
Love is blind. When a couple falls in love with each other many things will change. But will it work out or last till the end no one knows. The certificate can't guarantee to last a life time and women are centainly can't be protected by this nuisance paper! When a couple who are in love will always said: we should trust/compromise each other, but there is no guarantee till U have really stop breathing.
You said love is an instinct, i quite agreed, after all is how we manage it. We can't read each other thinking. U can be faithful to somebody, but this may not be the same to U.
If you find someone you like/love but at the same time you know both of U have many differences, better not to starts any relationship. So, no one will gets HURT.
It takes two to tango..and love is an instinct and when 2 persons meet..when you know both of you are "ngam" ! You will know it, the love comes naturally !
Do you agree ?
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