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Monday, June 1, 2009

Tips for a great relationship

From time to time, we need to be reminded on ways to stay young, healthy and of course relationship with our loved one....this is sent to me through my subscription to some website ! More to come and please enjoy !

EASY TIP #1: LOVE YOUR PARTNER EVERY DAY


When you're in a stable relationship, it's easy to start taking your life for granted. You forget what it was like to be single, and your partner starts to seem like just an ordinary guy that you "happened" to end up with.

Taking your relationship (and your partner) for granted is one of the quickest ways to kill the magic, so don't do it.

Make a mental note to say something lovely to your partner every day. Tell him how handsome he is, how much you like what he's wearing, or how much you appreciated something he did. Tell him how grateful you are that he's in your life, and how happy you are.

You don't have to make a big deal out of it. Just a few simple, genuine words are all you need.

Don't get fussed if he doesn't say anything back. At first, your compliments may take him off guard. He may even feel uncomfortable receiving praise from you.

So if he just mumbles and nods, don't take his dismissal as meaning that he didn't like hearing what you just said. Deep in his heart, your words will resonate.

And don't stress if he doesn't return the compliment. That wasn't the point. Your purpose was to make him feel good, not to get him to say something nice to you in return.

But over time, I can promise you this: the more you can find to love and appreciate in your partner, the more he'll find to love and appreciate in you.

to be continued...

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is a very good yet simple idea. Not only for he or him, she and her too ! Thanks for the timely reminder !

True love said...

Hi, thanks for checking out, I find it useful thus sharing here with everyone in this blog..

Anonymous said...

Hi, Can't help it; when is EASY TIP #2 please ?

True love said...

Hi Anon,

Sorry for the delay...hope the 1st part has been of great help to you ! Check out part II...hot from the oven !

Have a great day and always a smiling day :)

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