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Tuesday, December 23, 2008

It is time to let go



I have been thinking hard over what happened in life...thinking so hard and 
over thinking at times.  

And I realised it is time to let go and set myself free ! 
 
It has been too much pain, feeling of hurt, emotional stress and this is just what I can put down in words, but the actual pain is felt inside me, my body, my mind and my heart, no one could feel it except for my weak body and soul.

It has been kinda of "torturing" to be in this situation and I have enough and life has to go on.  I can't bear with this life anymore and I want a new life.  Taking a look at 08, how it started and it is coming to an end in 8 days, enough is enough.  There is no hatred and anger but only sad memories that traveled past me.  I will keep the passion for what and who I love next to me, only those sweet memories will always be with me.

I will keep what I treasure and nurture till it grows to full bloom.  My new life will start today and not 1st day of 09, it has to be a fresh new day and great opportunity awaits me with great big smile.   

Great positive thinking people, highly motivated life and far sight vision wave warmly at me..."My Dear, don't look back anymore !"

I wish to share my vision with all of you...have a great life !

Below is something I found on google..and hope you like it !

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
   it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
   it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
   but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
   the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another, 
   it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
   but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
   but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
   but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
   but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
   it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
   but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
   but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
   but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
   but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
   but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more
  The time to love is short

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Merry Christmas, Fei. I wish you strength to take on the challenges life throws at you and wish you gratitude in appreciating what life has to offer.

Cheh.

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